The Compassionate Friends

Tucson Chapter

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We're sorry for the reason you're here, but we're glad you've found us.

Our Mission

The mission of The Compassionate Friends:

When a child dies, at any age, the family suffers intense pain and may feel hopeless and isolated. The Compassionate Friends provides highly personal comfort, hope, and support to every family experiencing the death of a son or a daughter, a brother or a sister, or a grandchild, and helps others better assist the grieving family.

The Compassionate Friends was founded over 40 years ago when a chaplain at the Warwickshire Hospital in England brought together two sets of grieving parents and realized that the support they gave each other was better than anything he, as a chaplain, could ever say or provide. Meeting around a kitchen table, the Lawleys and the Hendersons were joined by a bereaved mother and the chaplain, Simon Stephens, and The Society of the Compassionate Friends was born. The Compassionate Friends jumped across the ocean and was established in the United States and incorporated in 1978 in Illinois.

Each chapter, along with the supporting National Office, is committed to helping every bereaved parent, sibling, or grandparent who may walk through our doors or contact us.

Today TCF has about 660 chapters serving all 50 states plus Washington D.C., Puerto Rico, and Guam offer friendship, understanding, and hope to bereaved parents, siblings, grandparents, and other family members during the natural grieving process after a child has died. Around the world more than 30 countries have a Compassionate Friends presence, encircling the globe with support so desperately needed when the worst has happened.

Upcoming Events

  • Change of Location

    Location: Christ Church United Methodist at 655 N. Craycroft

    Specifics: In October of 2017, the Tucson Chapter of the Compassionate Friends changed their meeting location.

  • Ice Cream Social

    Saturday, April 14th, 2018 at 2:00 - 4:00 p.m.

    Location: 655 N. Craycroft (monthly meeting location)

    Specifics: Change in venue and food plans! For years our chapter has hosted a picnic get together. This year we will be having an ice cream social at our meeting location. We will still have our remembrance activity. Family and friends are invited to this event.

  • 41st Annual National TCF Conference

    July 27th-29th, 2018

    Location: St. Louis, MO

    Specifics: For more information

  • Tucson Chapter Remembrance Candle Lighting

    October 24th, 2018 - 7:00 p.m.

    Location: Christ Church United Methodist, 655 N. Craycroft

    Specifics: Send 2-3 pictures of your child for the slide show to Please include your child's name, as you would like it to appear, with the email. Please make sure you receive an email responding that we have received your email and photos.

    Please invite your family and friends to the event. There will be music, poems, lighting of candles and a slide show with all of our children's photos. Bring a dessert to share and a photo or memento to display. Note the new location and arrive early as we will start promptly at 7:00PM.

  • Annual Chapter Candle Lighting

    December 9th, 2018 - 7:00 p.m.

    Location: Children's Memorial Park, 4851 N. 15th Place (less than a block west on River Rd past Oracle to the large Children's Memorial Park sign. Turn south through residential area to park).
    Click here for a map.

    The Compassionate Friends Worldwide Candle Lighting unites family and friends around the globe in lighting candles for one hour to honor the memories of the sons, daughters, brothers, sisters, and grandchildren who left too soon. As candles are lit at 7:00 p.m. local time, hundreds of thousands of persons commemorate and honor the memory of all children gone too soon. Now believed to be the largest mass candle lighting on the globe, the 20th annual Worldwide Candle Lighting, a gift to the bereavement community from The Compassionate Friends, creates a virtual 24-hour wave of light as it moves from time zone to time zone. TCF's WWCL started in the United States in 1997 as a small internet observance, but has since swelled in numbers as word has spread throughout the world of the remembrance. Hundreds of formal candle lighting events are held and thousands of informal candle lightings are conducted in homes as families gather in quiet remembrance of children who have died, but will never be forgotten. The Compassionate Friends and allied organizations are joined by local bereavement groups, churches, funeral homes, hospitals, hospices, children's gardens, schools, cemeteries, and community centers. Services have ranged in size from just a few people to nearly a thousand. Every year you are invited to post a message in the Remembrance Book which will be available, during the event, at TCF's national website.

    Specifics: See November's newsletter for more information

  • For more information about The Compassionate Friends, visit TCF's national website at